Tuesday, August 15, 2023

Broken Hearted and Looking Back

I have been wanting to post but just have not been able to get the energy or heart to do so. 

As my readers may remember, I was on the island of Maui the second week of July. I spent an afternoon in the small tourist town of Lahaina touring with my husband. We were just walking around, visiting a local bar for lunch and a drink and walking around under the famous Banyan tree...the oldest in the U.S. 



We got a nice view of the tree from our lunch table as well.



After lunch, we spent time talking to a lovely local lady who was the greeter at a historic missionary property nearby (the Baldwin Home that had been preserved in the small tourist town). We talked about a lot of stuff with her as she was social. We learned how she had integrated herself (she might have been African American) into the Hawaiian culture when she married a Hawaiian and found that she was not expected to cook and that her husband did most of the cooking as did all the men in his family. 

Then we toured the small and well-preserved missionary house for some time. It was a four-bedroom single-level structure. It was small and much like you would expect and I wish I had taken photos. The home had been built in 1834 and the brochure said it was the oldest house still standing. "The home was deeded to the Lahaina Restoration Foundation in 1967 and was restored to its 1850 design based on careful documentation and archaeological research." 

I have no idea if the dear lady we talked to is still there and survived the fire but I am sure the missionary house is gone. 

I had not visited there for more than a few decades and as an interested history buff, I was able to really absorb Lahaina and its local atmosphere around me. I had lived in the Pacific and understood the missionary impact, the whaling impact, etc. The great whaling port went through ups and downs in an economy that affected so many small indigenous groups while the European white man overharvests and becomes rich. 

I remember a sweet and religious young lady that Ubered us down to Lahaina that afternoon and talked about the closeness of the Maui community. She was not Polynesian but one of those women who did multiple jobs to make ends meet. I do not know if she is still alive as well.

Hawaii does have an actual friendly and neighborly culture from the Polynesians and other Asians who live there. It is not some fake personality they put on for the tourists. Polynesians, Filipinos, and others live and work there and are very generous of heart and mind. We toured a very small and local animal farm on a hillside on the island with my baby granddaughter. I have no idea if it is still there because it was midway between Lahaina and where we stayed. The farm, open by appointment only, was mostly rescue animals and run by a lady whose love of animals clouded the realistic view of caring for so many different animals. "Ditzy" was the word my husband and son used for her, I was thinking she was a bit clouded by the love of animals. She had recently broken her ankle and was hobbling around. The day we toured the farm, she said that a small brush fire had started at the driveway down the hillside and the fire station had called her as a warning. It was put out by the time she arrived. 





This whole tragedy brought back memories of my life on a small farm in Colorado. My father had ten acres of farmland which he really no longer farmed except for some alfalfa for our milk cow and vegetables which my mother canned.  There were about 4 aces that were left untouched and which grew only grasses and weeds.  Because this acreage was on a downward hill and faced the railroad tracks, my father would mow it low every year because he was afraid some spark from the train would start a brush fire.  Colorado, like the Lahaina side of Maui, is very dry and sometimes windy and nurtures wild fires.

17 comments:

  1. Prayers for Maui
    It is heart breaking the losses that have taken place in people and the land.

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  2. It is incredible how quickly the area was destroyed. People didn’t have time to react quickly enough. I can see how disturbing it would be to have been there so recently and have met people. One can only wonder if they survived. Take care!

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  3. Thank you for sharing this. It makes terrible events like this much more real when we have a personal connection.
    I find I am a bit on edge just waiting for the death toll to shoot up.

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  4. Glad you have those memories from your Maui stay. I've been several times and it's so heartbreaking. I believe it will take 10-15 years to rebuild Maui enough to return to a thriving town. The history is so profound and the people so genuine. I hope the mainland will keep helping them until all of the families have a home again. We used one of the boats to take my parents' ashes out to sea, two different times for Burial at Sea. The boat, Reel Luckey II survived the fires, but the wonderful owners were in Alaska and lost their home. Some folks may have lost their vacations, but the people in Maui lost everything and more. Linda in Kansas

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  5. I have never been to Hawaii, but I have been profoundly affected by what happened to Lahaina. I learned that the Banyan tree is absorbing water and putting out a bit of sap, giving hope that it will survive. So many people and animals did not. Your post is very affecting; thank you writing it.

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  6. My heart aches for and with the people there. We went to Hawaii years ago, and it is a beautiful place I'd love to see again.

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  7. I've never been to Hawaii and imagine make such memories add to the pain we all felt at this tragedy. I have followed it all week, with all the loss. Just so sad.

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  8. Such a devastating fire viewed on the news, but your post puts such human heartache on for all the victims --human, animal, plant, history.

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  9. So devastating and sad, thank you for sharing this. I hope those you mentioned are safe.

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  10. such a tragedy in Maui. we were there in 2017 and I just loved it. I've been to Oahu, the big island Hawai'i, and Maui and Maui is my favorite. the residents fear that developers are now going to swoop in and claim all the land and the residents will be pushed out. I hope that doesn't happen and they can rebuild their homes and lives.

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  11. ALthough I comment on your other blog, I've only just noticed this one too. I am so sorry that you have had this experience. Your post brings home the sadness of it. I went to Hawaii many years ago on a travel writing trip, and even on that short trip I liked Maui by far the best of the islands- for similar reasons to yours. I hope that someone can stop it being taken over by big developers.

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  12. You have a meaningful personal connection to the tree and community.

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  13. I went to Lahaina in 1983, during a company trip with my husband. I loved that little town....so picturesque and friendly. I too, stood under the Banyan tree and marveled at its breadth. The fires have devastated a lovely place and it breaks my heart for the people and Hawaii in general.

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  14. How utterly dreadful the fires are and the destruction they leave behind break any normal person's heart. In Europe the fires are still going on and whole landscapes have disappeared. Those poor people who have lost everything and may now have to cope with "progress" taking over their homes for the sake of profit.

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  15. Your words convey a very heavy heart, Tabor. Even from so far away we here have been horrified by the events in Hawaii. I know how down-hearted I get when there are bushfires in Australia, where I grew up. That's when it's hard to keep my thoughts positive. Cherish those memories of beautiful places and people.

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  16. Spring has just sprung down this way...a couple of storms have arrived in various areas, too, bringing some moisture that had been missing in action for a couple of months. My hope is we don't get any damaging storms in the coming months.

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  17. This was such a tragedy! And I'm hearing help for them is terribly slow!! Unbelievable!!
    hugs
    Donna

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