Thursday, June 18, 2020

It is a Dangerous World Even in Quarantine

Four weeks and a lot can happen when you hunker down.  As we drove through the more populated town to the north of us on our way to visit family, I noticed two huge areas of major construction alongside the road into the town.  Big areas of development, in the middle of a recession!  As we exited the small town on the other side I saw that our old dental building was totally gone with just a bare lot left behind!  I wonder if these kinds of changes are always there and we don't notice because we see them happening incrementally?

As I wrote we avoid seeing family.  BUT they invited us up to their big yard for an outdoor picnic of KFC and assorted sides including brownies for dessert, and when you say loved ones and fast food, who can say no?  

I was thrilled to see the three grands and my son and his wife and my daughter and her husband once again after four weeks of no time together!

We did not hug but also did not wear masks as we sat mostly six feet apart in the lovely spring air and were careful about touching only our own utensils.  There were sanitizing wipes on the table as well.  We all brought our own drinks.


Faces blurred to protect the guilty.  Shoulder brace was removed for a short time.

My son-in-law was the first to arrive with a shoulder brace.  I soon learned he had recently had surgery for an old golf injury (bone shaving of some type) as well as a brand new major torn ligament surgery, both done together.  Four weeks in a sling for a very active dude and it is killing him.  It is also his right arm and he has learned to be very ambidextrous.  With the kids involved in learning and the wife on conference calls, he has been left to his own devices.  I can imagine using a computer keyboard with only a left hand is very annoying, to say nothing of lots of other stuff.



Then I saw that my 13-year-old granddaughter now has a full mouth of braces.  She seems accepting of that and I honestly thought her teeth were perfect before!

But the final surprise was seeing my very active par-core grandson in a foot boot.  When I asked what had happened he said he twisted his ankle and it hurt so much they went in for x-rays and found that he is one of the 4% who are born with an extra bone in their foot and injuries take longer to heal because the tendons/muscles get compressed???


I am guessing if this was a normal year where I might not see them for months, this would have all passed without me noticing and that I would learn about this all anecdotally and promptly forget.  

It does seem to me that tons of things happen when you are hiding out at home.

15 comments:

  1. We are gradually beginning to return to the ability to visit friends and family. I actually had lunch with a friend and we were escorted to a table inside! It was really nice to see her and be able to visit like that. And I think you are right that we don't notice many things that happen daily when we're out and about. :-)

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  2. I am back in Vermont now -- quarantine for 14 days or for 7 and then get tested. Then I hope to see my grandkids for some outdoor activity.

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  3. It's great to catch up with family, isn't it!

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  4. Love ones and fast food...you should trademark that phrase. Glad y'all had a good time.
    The dog isn't wearing a mask, and he looks so happy.

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  5. We are a long way from family. Nice to see your photos and experience.

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  6. Great to see them and catch up in person!

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  7. life does go on. glad you got to see the family. as for the construction, even in a recession stuff needs to be done and people especially need the jobs.

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  8. It's a good thing you got a chance to get together! You got all that family news Up close and personal. I know what you mean about not remembering if you haven't seen it.
    My daughter and two grand kids are coming over for ice cream sundaes this evening. It's warm enough to be outside. We are celebrating the end of the school year and Father's Day. They will be going to Colorado on Sunday and I prefer to not get close to them after they have been on an airplane.

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  9. How awesome that you were able to have this precious time together. We have avoided being with my family here because my nephew is an ER nurse and my brother works in the police department photo lab.

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  10. A lot certainly has been happening while you've been in hiding, Tabo! :)

    It's sounds like your time with the walking wounded was enjoyable. :)

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  11. Good for you to not use masks out in the open, especially when you are keeping your distance.

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  12. II so hope all those 2 feet apart kids will be ok. Here it is mandatory to wear a mask at all times...as of yesterday. So glad you got some time with the kids.

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  13. It must have been a lovely day to be with your family. I sort of understand what your saying because being away from family for months at a time is normal for us because they live so far away and now that our state borders are closed we can't visit them anyway.

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  14. I'm one of the 4% (although I didn't know that was the percentage) with an extra bone in my feet. In my heel which makes buying closed in shoes difficult but once I find a brand that suits, I stick with it. Four of those brands have come and gone again, I hope my current favourite survives the virus. Once upon a time I was in the habit of spraining an ankle and did think I suffered more than others did but put it down to my imagination. Thanks for the info. Glad you enjoyed your family time. I think it's when we are denied it that we realise how precious it is.

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  15. Hope everyone gets healed up quickly, and i am glad you got to see them.

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